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Jika Sudah Bertahun-tahun Mendambakan Seseorang, Mungkin Inilah 7 Hal yang Harus Kamu Lakukan

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ArenaWanita.com – Ingat tidak sich novelnya Icha Rahmanti berjudul Cintapuccino yang booming banget di th. 2004? Ceritanya perihal Rahmi yang terobsesi berat sama Dimas Geronimo (Nimo – nemo Finding Nemo). Rahmi naksir nimo dari jaman SMA sampai dia kuliah. Bahkan juga sampe-sampe jurusan kuliah juga ngikutin si Nimo ini. Sepuluh th. loh Rahmi naksir Nimo, serta 10 tahun itu juga Nimo meremehkan Rahmi.

Anda juga mungkin saja sempat alami apa yang Rahmi alami. Menanti penuh berharap sepanjang 5 th., 7 tahun, 10 tahun, atau bahkan juga lebih dari itu. Sesaat perasaanmu tidak kunjung berbalas, juicet ‘perasaan sepihak’. Saran orang paling dekatmu buat move on dari dia sering anda abaikan. Karena anda sendiri tidak tau argumennya. Argumen mengapa sukar buat ganti tempatnya di hatimu…

Jika Sudah Bertahun-tahun Mendambakan Seseorang, Mungkin Inilah 7 Hal yang Harus Kamu Lakukan

“walau pernah juga anda menyimpan hati ke yang beda, tempat dia di hatimu terus tidak tergantikan. Satu saat anda terpikir buat menyelesaikan perasaanmu dengan menyebutkan. Tapi sebenarnya anda belum juga siap, belum juga siap mendengar jawabannya…”

Nah, untuk kamu yang mungkin saja tengah rasakan hal yang sama, berikut sebagian petunjuk yang mungkin saja dapat membantumu temukan jalan keluar.

1. Mungkin saja anda tidak kunjung moveon darinya karna anda sendiri belum juga memahami perihal perasaanmu sendiri. Apa anda sebatas senang, jatuh cinta, atau cuma terobsesi saja?

Rahmi yang terobsesi berat sama Nimo..

Mengerti perasaanmu yang kenyataannya mungkin saja wejangan untukmu temukan titik temu. Bila anda telah mengetahui apa bentuk perasaanmu kepadanya, paling tidak anda dapat temukan langkah buat menyelesaikannya.

Bila itu satu obsesi, jadi anda cuma penasaran kepadanya. Cuma menginginkan mempunyai. Jika itu senang atau mengagumi akan, jadi tentu ada satu sikapnya yang membuat kamu tdk dapat berpaling darinya. Entah sikapnya yang dewasa, langkahnya menghormati cewek, prestasinya, atau yang beda. Sesaat jatuh cinta nyaris sama juga dengan obsesi. Sama-sama ada perasaan menginginkan mempunyai, sekedar bila cinta agak semakin banyak jumlah sukanya.

Nah bila anda nyatanya jatuh hati, ini telah agak berat ya, karna anda tulus sayang sama dia. Anda tidak sekedar mengagumi akan sama keunggulannya tapi juga terima kekurangannya. Bila tahapannya ini, anda tidak mengharapkan buat mempunyai.

2. Jika itu satu obsesi, jadi anda mesti sadar bila dia bukanlah milikmu. Anda tidak punyai hak buat memaksanya memilihmu.

Terobsesi dengan seorang tentu anda penasaran bagaimana rasa-rasanya bila dia jadi milikmu. Anda beneran serius menginginkan punyai jalinan sama dia. Ingin menyebutkan perasaanmu, tapi sayangnya anda belum juga siap mendengar jawabannya. Belum juga siap bila nyatanya itu cuma perasaan sepihak.

Bahkan juga berada pada pada anda yang telah menyatakannya berulang-kali. Berulang-kali mendapatkan penolakan, serta berulang-kali itu juga anda tidak menyerah. Bila perasaanmu sebatas obsesi, jadi buat menyelesaikan semua anda cuma butuh sadar kalau dia bukanlah milikmu. Anda tidak punyai hak buat memaksanya memilihmu.

3. Bila anda sekedar hanya senang atau mengagumi akan, apa mungkin saja perasaan itu dapat bertahan sampai bertahun-tahun?

Perasaan suka atau kagum

Nah, bila cuma senang atau mengagumi akan, agak tidak mungkin bila perasaanmu bertahan sampai bertahun-tahun. Karna tentu ada seorang yang sikapnya bahkan juga tambah baik ketimbang dia. Karna didunia ini yang punyai sikap dewasa, berprestasi, baik hati itu tidak sekedar satu orang ‘kan?

4. Jika anda rasakan cinta, jadi nyatakanlah. Karenanya langkah paling baik buat tak akan pikirkan dia.

Perkara menyebutkan juga bukanlah hal yang asal-asalan. Anda tidak mungkin saja tetiba menyebutkan tidak ada pendekatan ‘kan? Terlebih sesungguhnya anda serta dia minim atau bahkan juga belum juga sempat berhubungan terlebih dahulu. Dalam hal semacam ini anda cuma mengaguminya dari jauh. Jatuh cinta dalam diam.

Saat anda mengambil keputusan buat menyebutkan, jadi anda mesti siap dengan jawabannya. Anda mesti menyatakan niatmu dari pertama kalau arahnya yaitu buat menyelesaikan serta bukanlah buat memaksanya membalas perasaanmu.

Anda mungkin saja dapat belajar dari contoh masalah ini :

Seseorang cewek yang jatuh cinta dengan cowok yang lebih tua darinya. Wanita ini tdk kunjung menikah dengan argumen ingin menikah seandainya pendampingnya yaitu cowok itu. Sesaat sang cowok mau selekasnya menikah kurun waktu dekat!

Pelajarannya yaitu bagaimana dia dapat menerimamu bila dia saja tidak paham perasaanmu? Bagaimana dia dapat tahu perasaanmu bila anda juga tdk sempat menyatakannya?

5. Apa yang anda rasakan mungkin saja lebih rumit seandainya nyatanya anda tidak cuma jatuh cinta, tapi jatuh hati padanya…

Jatuh hati…

Jatuh hati bermakna tulus sayang kepadanya. Serta anda tidak mengharapkan buat mempunyai, cukup dapat dekat dengannya. Cukup cuma jadi tempat curhatnya. Cukup perhatikannya dari jauh. Tidak apa memandangnya dengan yang beda.

Tapi mau jadi rumit bila nyatanya anda mengunci hatimu dari orang yang lain. Serta ini tampak dari caramu meremehkan seorang yang mendekatimu. Anda malas buka hatimu buat yang beda. Dia terus mendiami tempat spesial di hatimu.

He’s perfect because we think that he’s perfect (Icha Rahmanti)

Sangat disayangkan bila anda hingga menyia-nyiakan orang baik yang berupaya mendekatimu. Terlebih bila hingga berulang-kali, mungkin saja ini salah satunya argumen anda masih tetap sendiri. Karna salah satunya langkah buat move on yaitu terima orang baru yang mendekatimu, tapi bila memiliki komitmen (atau punyai jalinan) bukanlah prinsip serta prioritasmu, janganlah dipaksakan.

6. Tidak permasalahan anda belum juga siap terima orang baru, masih tetap ada langkah beda buat moveon serta nikmati hidupmu.

Langkah beda melupakan perasaan menahunmu yakni dengan banyak berkegiatan serta coba hoby baru. Turut komune spesifik, banyakin kesibukan organisasi di universitas, atau parttime di momen organizer. Sekali lagi, tentu banyak tempat didunia ini yang belum juga pernah anda kunjungi. Pada saat anda punyai sedikit tabungan mengapa anda tidak cobalah traveling? Mungkin saja disana anda dapat temukan pengganti dia. Yang punyai perasaan yang sama denganmu.

Bila belum juga pernah buat traveling, anda dapat menggantinya dengan hoby beda yang belum juga sempat anda cobalah terlebih dahulu : postcrossing! Yakin deh, bertukar kartu pos dengan teman akrab pena dari negara beda, dapat mengalihkan perasaan menahunmu. Perasaan sepihak itu sesaat terlupakan.

7. Bila nyatanya semua langkah buat moveon telah anda kerjakan, tapi nyatanya namanya terus bertahan di hatimu…

Tapi nyatanya namanya tetap bertengger di hatimu…

Pada fase ini jawabannya yaitu terima fakta. Terima fakta kalau mungkin saja perasaanmu kepadanya yang telah bertahun-tahun itu yaitu ujian Tuhan. Ini tantangan untuk kamu, tantangan buat mengatur perasaan.

Serta buat mengalihkan perasaan itu mungkin saja cukup cuma dengan fokus wujudkan yang diimpikanmu. Terlalu berlarut-larut pikirkan seorang juga tidak baik. Mungkin saja bila di Cintapuccino, Nimo pada akhirnya membalas cinta Rahmi serta bahkan juga melamarnya. Tapi balik sekali lagi, kehidupan itu tidak seindah novel atau film.

Serta anda mesti yakin bila satu pas perasaan sepihakmu yang telah menahun ini mau ada ujungnya. Entah hilang dengan sendirinya, atau tergantikan dengan dia yang telah Tuhan sediakan untukmu…

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